When someone goes through trauma as I have we have a hard time getting past things. My mind tries to make sense of things that it can’t figure out and logically part of my brain says it doesn’t matter but it matters to me because this was my life, these were my babies and so…

I think many people think that they know who I am or how I feel or will feel but I often find they’re way off base. Many people also assume a lot from frivolous things like Facebook posts. If you really want to know how I am doing our feeling actually take the time to…

As people who’ve already read or are friends or family know last year was a horrific year. What many people have difficulty with is how I feel. It’s not just about two cats that were murdered. They weren’t just pets to me. I’m 46 now and I don’t have children. When I got Luna as…

Last weekend I went to the Angel Paws memorial walk in Blue Ash. I felt very emotional when I was working on the luminaries. While doing Luna’s I seemed ok but then when it came to find Dexter’s I broke down and I wasn’t the only one. Joe did his best to distract me last…

The next two days are going to be tiring at work with the mandatory overtime so 10 fun filled hours of my physically demanding job. But it’s helping me lose weight and I get caught up on audio books. But it sure as hell makes me sore. OK so I promised I’d write more and…

One of the things I didn’t expect is how much it rains here in Cincinnati but this city definitely grew in me quickly. Which is why I’m always taking pictures of many things wherever I go. So I met with Alyssa, my therapist today and asked her what we’re doing with my therapy and it’s…